lunes, 18 de noviembre de 2013

Are you ready to die?

I am sure this is a strange question, I never asked anybody before.
What is the meaning of life and the meaning of death to you?
Do you live thinking to die? I wonder how many people live that way today.
Do you live a life with meaning or did you realize lately that your life has no meaning?
May be you think you will never die. Some people live like that! Did you know that fact?
Have you ever heard people living around you, thinking of their death?
How many people around you, ever spoke to you about their death or shared comments with you about this topic?
We are not truly aware that we will die one day. Still, we will all go through the experience one day or another!  I realized that when people live in certain situations or have a specific condition, they begin to be more aware about the concept of “death”. It seems to be more real for them, than for people living a life out of those challenges. All these comments are independent of how you see life and how you see or consider death.
During the past 48 days of my life I asked myself many questions related to many topics of which I never wrote before. I have been listening very carefully to people around me, observing how they live their life, listening to their stories about how they see themselves ending their life as well. The majority never asked themselves the purpose of their life. They just lived it! When I asked them “what is the purpose of your life?” many looked at me not knowing the answer and sometimes questioning if the answer is important to be known.
Why does this happen to human beings? Why do we behave this way? Do we know the answers to these types of questions or not? Do we have to know the answers or not? Will we be happier knowing that answer? The answer is yes, we definitely will be happier!
Last week a friend said to me “I already set everything, and I am ready to die” I was very impressed to listen to her say it, since she has no condition, she is not an elderly human being, and I consider she is healthy and wise, to inspire other human beings as well.
 Even though I agree that anything can happen to every human being any moment and any time, still I also believe we have so much to give to the world beginning by sharing our own life experiences, sharing the lessons we learned, our values, our dreams and desires, that to think about death is not necessary at all. It will happen anyway! And as we know it will happen, wouldn’t it be better to live our best life daily, understanding who we are and the purpose of our life? No matter your age, this is true!
Life is definitely a game. We come to life with nothing and we leave it the same way. Still we live life thinking this will be different. And we accumulate things instead of life experiences, instead of sharing love and stories with people to inspire them to understand the opportunities are closer than they seem to be.
During the journey of our life we add to our back pack, many things in the form of objects, as well as spiritual items, we value. Still I observed that people value sometimes objects more than emotional reactions to episodes of their life.
People do not understand and process their life experiences as lessons that will let them evolve and grow as human beings. They seem to forget them more that have them as their life survival kit to walk forward with more clarity and self esteem, understanding who they really are, instead of who they think they are; this causes them to walk blind with no clarity.
So when my friend said to me days ago “I am ready to die” this inspired me to share with you this article to awake you, the reader, to consider it is time to LIVE while you are alive instead of waiting to live in the future. You will never live in the future since the future will be yours just and only when it transforms in today! Nobody can ever live in the future; every human being can only live in the present time.
So from now on, try to focus on who you are, which is your purpose, get inspired to find your best opportunities no matter your age, because your life deserves to be the best expression of who you are and you are here to live a life that will inspire others at the same time.
Try to show others the best performance of your role, because in this life there is only one spotlight and one stage for you to shine. Make it happen as soon as you can. Make a difference in your own life to make a difference in other people’s life.

Esther Coronel de Iberkleid
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miércoles, 3 de julio de 2013

How do you feel with “a NO” as an answer?

Many times in our life, we receive a NO as an answer. We have all gone through this situation and we have all reacted the same way. We feel angry, frustrated, disapointed and mad. Deep inside ourselves we think something is wrong with us. May be we are not enough! May be we said something wrong! May be we did something wrong. But the truth is that this is not the truth! And the other truth is that we never ever consider that as a possibility. We take the answer as a fact! And we generally feel terrible!

What would happen if the truth behind the NO was different?

What would happen if thanks to this “NO” we could continue searching for our “road to follow” to achieve success, to achieve our dream, to achieve reaching the place where we really have to be, instead of staying in a place that is not exactly for us!

I know that you are reading this thinking this is not the truth! I have been where you are and I also felt the same! And even for me today a “NO” is still difficult to process. So I invite you to stay calm and continue reading!

We have not been trained to understand this differently along our journey, absolutely not! And these are the situations where instead of empower ourselves we get totally lost, feel bad and remain stack. Because this is the consequence of the answer “NO” in our system: confusion, bad feelings, disappointment.

Today, after many years of feeling what you also feel when going through these situations I realize that thanks to the NO´s in my life, I did not stay in a place that was not for me, even if I may have thought it was. Because we all think like that! You are not alone you are not the only one!

So I invite you to remember from now, that the “NO´s” are just information for you to turn direction, to make a shift and continue walking in a different direction to find the light, to find your light! It is like the street lights. A NO is a red light and a YES is a green light along the journey.

We live our life learning, while going through challenges. This is the training we have to go through to reach our destination. We may reach it or not depending on how we process and evaluate the results and answers we get on a daily basis. Today it is important to understand we may not have been aware about this fact and how we have to process the information we receive. It is not our fault, it is how it has been, still this may change from now. You may be open to the possibility of evaluating things differently from now. You have the right to do it.

Because life if a journey, and you walk through it to reach the place where you will shine your own light. As simple as that! Try to step back and see the picture of your life. How was the path you walked? Did you have many turns?

This is why it is so important to find your purpose to live your life on purpose.

Your purpose will then integrate with your vision and mission and you will fuel it with your passion. It is then that your life will make sense and you will feel who you are, since you will have clarity and confidence about what you are doing in your daily life.

We have to open our eyes, stay tuned and wait for the time to come. We have to be ready, we have to be prepared to offer our best version to deliver our gift to the world.

Everything will finally be what it has to be and the big picture will show up in front of your eyes.

Trust your heart and your inner guidance!!! It may not be easy but you will be so happy at that moment that you will never regret how long it took to get to your destination.

The trip is a lesson. It is a process and it sure takes time. Every person needs a different piece of the puzzle to be supported with, to achieve the goal.

I highly recommend you look for guidance, and the right mentor, the right coach that will guide you as your personal teacher exactly as he was mentored to achieve his goal.

Be patient, trust the process and look for help. You will never regret you did it!

It will be terrible to regret not reaching your final destination at the end of the Journey!

With love, light, gratitude and abundance to all



Esther Coronel de Iberkleid
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lunes, 18 de febrero de 2013

Why sometimes instead of freedom people connect with fear?



Weeks ago I was talking with a friend about procrastination.
Do you remember when you experienced procrastination in your life?
All of us experienced procrastination at least once in life.
Why do we go through it? Because there is a mechanism inside human beings that sometimes instead of choosing freedom, guides us to choose fear.
Freedom means air, clarity, confidence and self-esteem at all levels to live life to the fullest.
Fear means restrictions, to be stacked, unable to move, paralyzed.
We have all been in a situation where we think something from the outside blocks us. Still it is something from the outside generating something inside ourselves that begins the process. It can be a situation, it can be an emotional reaction, it can be something from the past, and it can really be many things.
It is difficult to take action, because we look for objections that come from our old beliefs and stop us convincing us that we are unable to move forward.
They are caused by FEAR: false evidence that appears to be real. False information coming from our subconscious mind based on old experiences that were imprinted, and are supposedly “trying to protect us”. The subconscious mind is like a recorder. It cannot think reason or evaluate, it only replicates reactions according to the emotions we feel, that we felt in the past and left a print in our subconscious mind. Indeed our conscious mind has the power to think, evaluate, reason and choose. Once we are aware of this fact, we evolve understanding the lesson related to the experience and grow from it. At that moment we are able to move forward being conscious of who we are which are our skills and where we are aimed to arrive having the blueprint to walk through a plan and a strategy that will help us reach our goal. We are now able to take safe and secure decisions and be free from the past. This is evolution! Are you ready to evolve?



Esther Coronel de Iberkleid
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